Exceptional Woman School

Good morning!!!  

Talk about a throwback Thursday memory! My husband sent me this video this morning. When this video first came out 8 years ago, he said it was the one that made him ready to propose.

Three months later at my cousin’s wedding, I thought he was just going to the...

#GARDENING

When I say open up and let heaven surprise you, here is what I’m talking about.

Since it is such a beautiful day, my sister-in-law texted us and said she was going to pick up some softshell crab, my mother-in-law came over, we’re all cooking and hanging out, and watching...

#marriagemusing

When a woman aligns with pleasure, the masculine aims to give her MORE pleasure.

You have to incorporate pleasure into every single day of life. Pleasure is not for a special occasion. Pleasure must be a daily ritual if you are to live a truly leveled up, exceptional life.

We also...

DOES MARRIAGE EVEN BENEFIT WOMEN?

(TRIGGER WARNING: This may bring up a lot of emotions for you. If it does, sit with it and think about what it means for you, even if you're uncomfortable. Please note that these writings are specifically addressing women who wish to get married.)

I'm expanding...

WHY DO YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED?

Hello, lovelies.

I recently had a powerful realization.

There's so much to talk about "how to get the ring", "secure the bag" (honestly, I'm still not sure what that means exactly), and "be chosen" (I REFUSE to use the term "chose"), that you're not asking a...

***Diamonds and 2 dozen long stemmed roses as a push present BECAUSE I DESERVE IT***

So... I just had a baby earlier this week and my heart is so full. But I almost missed out on this beautiful life experience. Y’all know Friday is the day of love, so I have to testify.

I used to swear up...

***COMPLETELY LOVED AND BOSSED AROUND***

So I just got busted breaking one of the MANY rules of my 30 day postpartum recovery period. My mother in law totally busted me going outside (snuck outside for a quick morning walk). She busted me when I had my first baby, too. Asian grandmas don’t...

It’s someone’s baptism weekend!

#baptism
#babybaptism
#catholic
#family
#lillypulitzer
#marriage
#parenting
#love
#life
#inspiration
#motherhood
#fortheloveoflilly
#seersucker
#ambw
#blasian
#tradition
#joy
#peace

JOYFUL MOTHERHOOD:

https://lady-cro.ck.page/557fa2e75f

PREPARING FOR JOYFUL...

More pleasure homework: starting the day with good nutrition and beauty. How you start your day off and the things that you say to yourself first thing in the morning are extraordinarily important.

Say good things and look at good things. Put on some morning jazz, get a nice coffee mug, open...

I told my husband that I was marrying him for his mother. I was only half joking when I said it. I knew she was an amazing person and I wanted to be a part of her family. She just made dumplings after caring for me and the kids all day. Then she took both of the kids and gave them a bath. Then my...

I want to share with you all the story that I’m not particularly proud of, but that I think will help you. It is about arrogance and missed opportunities. Years ago, I got access to a REALLY successful executive who had a deep understanding about the ends and outs of organizational...

A woman that feels loved, protected, and provided for can create an incredible amount of pleasure and beauty in her home on any given day. When hubby called on his way home today, I could hear it in his voice that he needed the element of pleasure when he walked in the door. I created just that...

Being the female breadwinner sounds like a good idea until...

OK, ladies, since this is a VERY hot topic this week (and I was actually discussing this with a close friend 2 days ago), as someone who’s on the other side of this game, LET ME GIVE YOU THEREAL DEAL. Buckle up because this is a...

Temper tantrums and sunshine at the t-ball (toddler baseball) game. Whoever thought it was a good idea to schedule 3 year olds’ game during nap time is a messed up individual. Shoutout to my hubby because he was the real MVP today.\

Nikki 

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I KNOW this one hurts.

I KNOW IT.

But somebody needs to hear this today so they can stay encouraged. You're doing good. Maybe you're losing the weight and starting to feel more joyful and energized. Maybe you've met someone who is emotionally available, optimistic, and really into you. Maybe your...

We were late for church, we ended up in the overflow, and our toddler decided to talk super loud during the sermon, but we still had a great morning!

Grateful for all the shenanigans in this season of life.

Happy Easter, everyone

Nikki 

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I would like to say something about the culture of mean-spiritedness that we have today. I think we have no idea how many opportunities for promotions, new jobs, wonderful partnerships we miss out on because we can’t resist the urge to put someone in their place. But really, what do we win...

Go check on your friend today.

In person if at all possible.

Has there ever been a time where you called a girlfriend, ask how she was doing, and she said that she was fine, but you just knew something wasn’t right? What did you do?

Some years back, this happened between me and a...

Next Tuesday is Night 1 of our Games Guys Play series. I'm really excited about it and I wanted to talk some more about why I feel this class is so important.

Like many of you ladies, I grew up watching men behave very badly. The thing that made me most angry about all these bad behaving men,...

Gardening, shopping, and a business coffee meeting today.

As a tech entrepreneur mom, having control and flexibility makes every day rich and rewarding. Series videos being edited this week and I will speak more about this.

Nikki 

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Good morning, ladies.

As things pick up and we go into the holiday season, remember that Beast Mode/Hustle/Grinding energy may not work for you and you need to honor that. You can create your life how YOU want it, but you must honor yourself first. That's how you become a combination of power,...

Hello, lovelies.

Hope the day is going well so far. I wanted to share with you something I recently realized:

This conversation about independent women versus sugar babies (or 50/50 vs. hypergamy) is deeper than we’re letting on.

2 observations:

First: This is just more female competition...