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Be Fall In Love Again Like The Day of Your Engagement blessed dating family love relationships

Good morning!!!  

Talk about a throwback Thursday memory! My husband sent me this video this morning. When this video first came out 8 years ago, he said it was the one that made him ready to propose.

Three months later at my cousin’s wedding, I thought he was just going to the...

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Here is the Heaven's Surprise When You Open Up: The Greatest Story blessed gardening relationships thankful
#GARDENING

When I say open up and let heaven surprise you, here is what I’m talking about.

Since it is such a beautiful day, my sister-in-law texted us and said she was going to pick up some softshell crab, my mother-in-law came over, we’re all cooking and hanging out, and watching...

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What Happens When A Woman Aligns With Pleasure?
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When a woman aligns with pleasure, the masculine aims to give her MORE pleasure.

You have to incorporate pleasure into every single day of life. Pleasure is not for a special occasion. Pleasure must be a daily ritual if you are to live a truly leveled up, exceptional life.

We also...

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A True Story: Does Marriage Even Benefit Women?

DOES MARRIAGE EVEN BENEFIT WOMEN?

(TRIGGER WARNING: This may bring up a lot of emotions for you. If it does, sit with it and think about what it means for you, even if you're uncomfortable. Please note that these writings are specifically addressing women who wish to get married.)

I'm expanding...

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Why Do You Want to Get Married? Know the High Quality Marriage Requirements blessed exceptionalladies highvaluewoman relationships wedding whygetmarried

WHY DO YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED?

Hello, lovelies.

I recently had a powerful realization.

There's so much to talk about "how to get the ring", "secure the bag" (honestly, I'm still not sure what that means exactly), and "be chosen" (I REFUSE to use the term "chose"), that you're not asking a...

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An Inspiring Story About A Successful Marriage & Motherhood blessed family ideserveit love motherhood relationships wedding whygetmarried

***Diamonds and 2 dozen long stemmed roses as a push present BECAUSE I DESERVE IT***

So... I just had a baby earlier this week and my heart is so full. But I almost missed out on this beautiful life experience. Y’all know Friday is the day of love, so I have to testify.

I used to swear up...

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How I Recovered from my 30-Day Postpartum Period blessed breastfeeding depression family high value woman love motherhood

***COMPLETELY LOVED AND BOSSED AROUND***

So I just got busted breaking one of the MANY rules of my 30 day postpartum recovery period. My mother in law totally busted me going outside (snuck outside for a quick morning walk). She busted me when I had my first baby, too. Asian grandmas don’t...

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It's Baptism Weekend! Welcome to the Catholic World! church motherhood thankful

It’s someone’s baptism weekend!

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JOYFUL MOTHERHOOD:

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PREPARING FOR JOYFUL...

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The Secret to Pleasure Homework In the Morning family love motherhood whygetmarried

More pleasure homework: starting the day with good nutrition and beauty. How you start your day off and the things that you say to yourself first thing in the morning are extraordinarily important.

Say good things and look at good things. Put on some morning jazz, get a nice coffee mug, open...

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What kind of wonderful surprises are waiting for you in the future when you find your tribe? blessed exceptionalladies family ideserveit love motherhood relationships thankful whygetmarried

I told my husband that I was marrying him for his mother. I was only half joking when I said it. I knew she was an amazing person and I wanted to be a part of her family. She just made dumplings after caring for me and the kids all day. Then she took both of the kids and gave them a bath. Then my...

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The Secret of Joy, Success, High-Value Partners, Life Experience blessed career cultivation exceptionalladies family levelingup love ownfinancialsuccess relationships thankful

I want to share with you all the story that I’m not particularly proud of, but that I think will help you. It is about arrogance and missed opportunities. Years ago, I got access to a REALLY successful executive who had a deep understanding about the ends and outs of organizational...

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Give Love, Protection, Pleasure & Beauty to Have a Blessed Family blessed exceptionalladies family love motherhood relationships thankful whygetmarried

A woman that feels loved, protected, and provided for can create an incredible amount of pleasure and beauty in her home on any given day. When hubby called on his way home today, I could hear it in his voice that he needed the element of pleasure when he walked in the door. I created just that...

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The Truth About the Female Breadwinner and How To Win It! blessed high value woman love motherhood

Being the female breadwinner sounds like a good idea until...

OK, ladies, since this is a VERY hot topic this week (and I was actually discussing this with a close friend 2 days ago), as someone who’s on the other side of this game, LET ME GIVE YOU THEREAL DEAL. Buckle up because this is a...

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Find a Real MVP Husband to Handle Temper Tantrums blessed family love motherhood relationships thankful whygetmarried

Temper tantrums and sunshine at the t-ball (toddler baseball) game. Whoever thought it was a good idea to schedule 3 year olds’ game during nap time is a messed up individual. Shoutout to my hubby because he was the real MVP today.\

 

Nikki 

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Unhappy People Will Find the Right People in the New Reality blessed confidence depression family high value woman levelup love ownfinancialsuccess thankful

I KNOW this one hurts.

I KNOW IT.

But somebody needs to hear this today so they can stay encouraged. You're doing good. Maybe you're losing the weight and starting to feel more joyful and energized. Maybe you've met someone who is emotionally available, optimistic, and really into you. Maybe your...

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Do You Believe That Wonderful Things Can Happen FOR YOU? blessed family high value woman love thankful

Yes, YOU.

Do you believe that wonderful things can happen FOR YOU?

I used to be so confused when a person would reject a kind person’s friendship, an opportunity to catapult their earnings, or a wonderful love interest's attentions, but as I do more and more of this coaching I realize that...

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Happy Easter: The Season of Life blessed church easter family love motherhood relationships thankful whygetmarried

We were late for church, we ended up in the overflow, and our toddler decided to talk super loud during the sermon, but we still had a great morning!

Grateful for all the shenanigans in this season of life.

Happy Easter, everyone

 

Nikki 

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You need to be!...

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Drag for Filth: The Secret on How You Can Have a Surprising & Beautiful Life blessed career cultivation confidence exceptionalladies high value woman levelup thankful

I would like to say something about the culture of mean-spiritedness that we have today. I think we have no idea how many opportunities for promotions, new jobs, wonderful partnerships we miss out on because we can’t resist the urge to put someone in their place. But really, what do we win...

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The Importance of Checking On Your Friend: A Touching Story blessed depression family high value woman love relationships thankful

Go check on your friend today.

In person if at all possible.

Has there ever been a time where you called a girlfriend, ask how she was doing, and she said that she was fine, but you just knew something wasn’t right? What did you do?

Some years back, this happened between me and a...

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Games Guys Play: How To Handle The Situation When The Relationship Is At Risk

Next Tuesday is Night 1 of our Games Guys Play series. I'm really excited about it and I wanted to talk some more about why I feel this class is so important.

Like many of you ladies, I grew up watching men behave very badly. The thing that made me most angry about all these bad behaving men,...

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Tech Mom Free Day: The Exceptional Woman career cultivation gardening

Gardening, shopping, and a business coffee meeting today.

As a tech entrepreneur mom, having control and flexibility makes every day rich and rewarding. Series videos being edited this week and I will speak more about this.

 

Nikki 

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How To Honor Yourself First To Be An Exceptional Woman blessed career cultivation exceptionalladies financial literacy levelingup levelup thankful

Good morning, ladies.

As things pick up and we go into the holiday season, remember that Beast Mode/Hustle/Grinding energy may not work for you and you need to honor that. You can create your life how YOU want it, but you must honor yourself first. That's how you become a combination of power,...

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The Promise of Having A Happy and Blessed Marriage gratitude marriage motherhood
Many times, as we wait to birth our dreams, we get overwhelmed with our expectation and forget to find ways to enjoy the moment. I'm sharing this picture because I remember the day I decided to work in the garden even though I was super pregnant and so ready to have the baby. I decided to sit in...
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Miss Independent Vs. The Sugar Baby confidence dating and relationships

Hello, lovelies.

Hope the day is going well so far. I wanted to share with you something I recently realized:

This conversation about independent women versus sugar babies (or 50/50 vs. hypergamy) is deeper than we’re letting on.

2 observations:

First: This is just more female competition...

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