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Today is a Holy Day day of Obligation
Y’all, I had SUCH a blessed day. We went to Mass for the first time in almost a year and it felt so wonderful. When we walk in, we usually go to the cry room where all the parents with little toddlers and babies sit, but the Usher insisted that we go into the main church.
 
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Floating. Reflecting. Appreciating.

SIS, YOUR NEW LIFE WILL COST YOU YOUR OLD ONE.

I spent this morning enclosed in an isolation tank. Nothing but pitch black darkness, the water, and me.

Floating. Reflecting. Appreciating.

Today is the first day of June. This is the month that my husband proposed to me nine years ago.

I was...

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SIX MONTHS OF LOST WISDOM AND GAME

Can I ask you a question, though?

Why do we have such an attitude with the next woman who's living the life she wants? I'll tell you why.

Because we play too much.

We drag our feet and we waste time and then get mad that we don’t have what we really want. A lot of people wonder how I have...

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Joyful Childbirths

Just got through having a good cry because I finally published this book tonight.

If you've been following me for any amount of time, you know I don't half-ass my craft and I do this work with my heart.

My prayer is that more women break generational curses of miserable motherhood and having more...

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During the dating process.. are you someone who NEEDS to talk daily?

Let me go ahead and put some of the ladies on to some game that I had to learn the hard way years ago.

(Luckily, I corrected course and am loving life now.)
The expectation that you will talk to a productive or "high-value" man every single day when you first meet or first start dating is NOT...

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WHO ARE YOU BECOMING?

Who are you becoming?

Don't scroll past this. Answer the question.

WHO ARE YOU BECOMING?

We are all becoming something.

See, the conversations that are being had among women about "leveling up" are about DOING all these things to get the life we want: dress elegant, only go to certain places,...

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Good girl stuff doesn't work..

I keep tellin y'all that good girl stuff doesn't work. I learned that the hard way.

I was raised around a lot of church women and was a VERY good girl myself when I first started my adult life, and the one common thing that I soon realized was that those church ladies were always getting played,...

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Start Where You Are, Sis...
What to do when you're overwhelmed with what to do next in your career (which will impact your lifestyle, relationships, etc.)...

 

Nikki 

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Get some skills so men can't play in your face.

Winter IS coming. You can either be out in the freezing cold or snuggled with a hot cocoa in a ski chalet. Get yourself the skills you need to put yourself in a premium position to get a well paying remote job and not having to deal with bad behavior from bad actors. Give yourself a chance at a...

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How Many Women Are Too Proud to Admit They’re in Trouble?

There's a lot of celebrating about the OnlyFans news and how many lost young women will be in a worse position, particularly by other women. This causes us to be just as unforgiving of ourselves as we are of other women. Listen in and let me know your thoughts in the comments!

 

Nikki 

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Women WANT Care but Not for Other Women...WHY?

We have SO MUCH SMOKE and very little compassion for each other. Why do you think that is? Let me know your thoughts!

You can read the Yahoo News article here: https://www.yahoo.com/now/dr-dre-daug...

 

Nikki 

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The Life You Want Happens One Day at a Time

I noticed in my conversations with quite a few ladies that negging is very frequent and surprisingly effective. Check out my video and analysis of the New York Post article and let me know your thoughts in the comments!

You can read the entire New York post article here: ...

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Look what's for Brunch today...Ready to host this Memorial Day weekend?

7 TIPS TO HOST AN IMPRESSIVE BRUNCH

1. Have a theme in mind. The brunch that I hosted over the weekend had a “Mediterranean Spring” theme. Having a theme helps you decide on color choices for table settings, as well as the menu to pick.

2. Pick your menu according to the season and...

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Come to My Wine and Vision Board Party this Saturday!

This event was PHENOMENAL! And guess what? You can still catch the replay!

 

Nikki 

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We say we want to LEVEL UP, but what level are we even ON?

Self-analysis is key to becoming an exceptional woman...

 

Nikki 

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How to Finish the Year Strong...

This 90-day planner was created for women who are on the journey of self-cultivation and accomplishing goals while standing in their feminine energy. We live in a very masculine, fast-paced, "beast mode" society, and too much of this energy burns us out and knocks us out of alignment. For many...

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Why Beast Mode Stops Working for Many Women

"A DAY IN THE LIFE OF A TECH ENTREPRENEUR MOM - PART 1"

Has "Beast Mode" stopped working for you?

When you STOP TRYING TO PROVE THAT YOU'RE A GOOD MAN and make the decision to create life how YOU want it AS A WOMAN, you can have a very full, rewarding life and handle all the moving parts on YOUR...

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Do It Like a Woman - A Day in the Life of Tech Entrepreneur Mom (Sneak Peek 2)

"DON'T DO IT LIKE A MAN. DO IT LIKE A WOMAN." In my second sneak peek into my "A Day in the Life of Tech Entrepreneur Mom" series…One of the most freeing things that I ever did was to MAKE THE DECISION TO STOP TRYING TO PROVE I WAS A GOOD MAN. It's especially seductive in the world of tech...

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Sneak Peek: A Day in the Life of a Tech Entrepreneur Mom

A sneak peek at my upcoming series...The amazing thing about living in this time as a woman is that you can create the life that YOU want on YOUR terms. When I left my leadership role in my corporate job, I decided that I would cultivate my children, my home, AND my own firm, and the...

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What EXACTLY was so terrible about what Ayesha Curry said???

What EXACTLY was so terrible about what Ayesha Curry said???

 

Nikki 

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Being Too Picky is a Form of Self-Sabotage

Being hyper-picky is another form of self-sabotage on the journey to finding a great partner to build a life with. In this video, I share a story of my recent attempt to connect a woman acquaintance with an AMAZINGLY high-quality man, and how she may very well have missed an opportunity to get to...

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Baby Baptism Celebration - Reality Reversal

Earlier this week, I made a quick video discussing how in order to reverse your old reality, you have to do some extreme and courageous things. This is the followup video that I promised you ladies. But first things first, let me tell you about the old reality that I had to reverse...

The old...

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Extreme Reality Reversal Requires Action

The struggle narrative is played out, but how do you reverse it if that’s all you’ve ever seen? Extreme reality reversal requires courage and action. Come to class tomorrow night for more.

 

Nikki 

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The Truth About Being the Female Breadwinner - Part 1

Being the female breadwinner sounds like a good idea until…

I'm doing a live class about the truth about money, men, marriage, and motherhood and how to make sure you get a good setup. I’m going to discuss:

• what type of guy you need to be dating from day one
• how to...

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